Don’t Kid Yourself – You Always Have A Choice

You have a choice to walk away from that friendship that’s holding you back from taking the risks required to take your life forward. Yes, you guys have been friends from childhood but that negativity, fear and mockery of your attempts to find a new path are not what you need – not anymore. You have a choice to create some distance.

You have a choice to leave that romantic relationship that you know is going nowhere. It’s been a few years and you know deep in your heart that this is not what you want to live with for the rest of your life. It’s adding zero value to your existence. You know you’re just marking time. You have a choice to say it’s over.

You have a choice to close that tab on your browser despite your body’s crave for some physical stimulation. Yes, you don’t want to be thought of as ‘inexperienced’ so you tell yourself you’re just getting some ‘education’ for the future. But your spirit knows otherwise; something’s dying within. You feel like a dirty hypocrite and you’re tired of living this way. You have a choice to turn away.

You have a choice to manage your money and grow your wealth. Yes, everyone else wants a handout and they’re skilled at making you feel guilty for trying to say no. But you cannot do that to yourself – eventually, they’ll drain you out and leave you broke. You have a choice to say “No”.

You have a choice to be different. Yes, you can stand for, in public, what you so dearly believe in private. You can be the proof that it’s perfectly possible to be young, godly and cool all at the same time. You have a choice.

You have a choice to not blame anyone for your state in life today. Sure, you’ve been let down by those who should have provided support systems to help you out. But for how long will you blame others? You have a choice to stop that and get to work on your life.

You have a choice to go after your goals, or stay stuck in ‘New Year’ mode. Two months gone and you’ve not yet begun. Will you let things go on the same? Or face up to it and make a change? You’re feeling young and feeling fly, but look at the clock my friend, it’s flying by.

You have a choice to let others speak to you however they please  or to put them in check and make them cease. Do you keep pretending to be humble while their words cut you down within? You have a choice to refuse degrading treatment in any way. You have a choice to be a king – to live the life that’s been placed within.

You always have a choice.

People will always talk. No decision you make will appeal to everyone. Someone somewhere will always be disappointed however you choose to go.

Yes, love people. Be considerate. Pray and think before you make a move. But never try to soothe everyone’s emotions before taking decisions that affect your life.

You have a choice. Don’t kid yourself- You ALWAYS have a choice.

 

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